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What Shashi Kapoor’s Death Says about India’s Drinking Problem

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Veteran actor Shashi Kapoor was devastatingly handsome, charming, and urbane – a trailblazer who made a quantum leap from Bollywood to Western and parallel cinema, and whose crooked teeth bewitched millions with every imperfectly perfect smile.

He was also a raging alcoholic.

On 4 December 2017, he died at Kokilaben Hospital in Mumbai after initially being admitted for a “chest infection”.

The Shashi Kapoor who died was not that same strapping hero whom most remember in his films. For years, he endured a “long battle” with liver cirrhosis, as well as kidney failure.

Anil Dharker, a close friend of the actor, writes in the biography Shashi Kapoor: The Householder, The Star that Kapoor’s drinking problem began to spiral after the death of his wife Jennifer Kendal in 1984. Dharker recalls that the actor’s “domestic staff would bring refills as soon as his glass emptied out. He wouldn’t even have to ask… by the end of lunch, he would be quite sozzled.”

According to the biography, Kapoor drank up to a bottle of vodka per day.

Officially, Kapoor’s cause of death was cited as “liver cirrhosis” – a condition that leaves the organ incapable of purifying blood and more susceptible to subsequent illnesses.

I’m not sure what passes through most people’s minds when they hear the word “cirrhosis”. As a physician, I think immediately of the patients I have seen hospitalized with some of its worst consequences: liver cancer or life-threatening bleeding from engorged veins below the throat. When you’ve watched enough people vomit blood to their deaths, cirrhosis stops being an obscure medical term in gastroenterology and becomes a horrific cause of death.

Of course, none of this was mentioned in the numerous articles written in the wake of his passing, which focused more on his celebrated career than his sorry demise.

Alcohol abuse, plain and simple, is the most common cause of cirrhosis in India. The country adds 10 lakh new patients diagnosed with the disease every year, accounting for nearly one-fifth of the global death toll due to a largely preventable condition.

Yet Shashi Kapoor’s death wrought no battle cry to raise awareness of alcoholism. Deaths from suicide or lung cancer frequently spark national conversations about mental health or tobacco use respectively. Why is alcohol abuse so different?

Despite being no stranger to addiction behind the camera, Bollywood’s depiction of alcoholism onscreen throughout the years has been shallow at best.

From as early as Rajesh Khanna in Kati Patang, who eventually died of liver cancer after decades of alcohol abuse, or Dharmendra in Sholay, who later revealed his real-life drinking problem destroyed his career while promoting Yamla Pagla Deewana 2, classic Bollywood films frequently glorified a hero who drowns his sorrow in drink.

If it comes as a shock that Rajesh Khanna’s cancer was entirely due to his drinking problem, don’t feel bad – as usual, nobody talked about it.

Behind the scenes, Bollywood often scrambled to hide the vices of its stars, particularly among its women, at a time when drinking was taboo. After years of heavy alcohol abuse, tragedy queen Meena Kumari’s poor health became so visibly apparent that the entire song sequence for “Chalo Dildar Chalo” from Pakeezah (1972) was reportedly shot in a way that would hide her face from the camera lest the public realize the extent of her addiction. She died of liver cirrhosis within weeks of the film’s release.

Similarly, popular singer Geeta Dutt died of cirrhosis at the young age of 41 after alcohol had ravaged her liver. When Dutt missed recording appointments (opening more doors of opportunity to the Mangeshkar sisters) or could not go on stage because of her inebriation, excuses were fabricated to hide her addiction from fans. The irony of Meena Kumari lip-synching Geeta Dutt’s booze-induced plea “Na Jao Saiyan” from Sahib Bibi Aur Ghulam still haunts the ugly history of alcoholism in Bollywood.

But our society has evolved and so have our films. India has long shed its reputation as a nation of teetotallers. Women who drink, once relegated in classic Bollywood movies to scandalous, cringeworthy hiccups after each sip, are now allowed to keep up with (and outshine) the alcohol tolerance of their male counterparts.

Bohemian beauty Parveen Babi flaunted her drinks with insouciance in hit films Deewar and Namak Halal, helping usher in a new age of liberalisation for young women. When she died in 2005, a past marred by real-life alcohol and drug addiction resurfaced.

One of the most well-known cases of behind-the-scenes addiction is comeback actor Sanjay Dutt, whose alcoholism is said to have forced a split with his first girlfriend, actor Tina Munim. His stark tale of addiction is most notable for its unusual twist – he actually sought rehabilitation in the United States in the early 1980s. To his credit, Dutt has recently discussed plans to open rehabilitation centers in India for those who cannot afford treatment abroad.

While Dutt remains among the very few who have openly sought help, rumors continue to fly of the drinking problems of other major stars, including Shah Rukh Khan, Suzanne Roshan, Arjun Rampal, and Sonam Kapoor.

Today, films demonstrate that drinking is not merely glamorous, but de rigeur in modern social spheres of any class.

Top-billed heroines Anushka Sharma and Deepika Padukone carry guilt-free drinks in their hands just as casually as their cellphones, without any obligatory scenes of subsequent shame (debauchery, of course, is optional).

Blockbusters now routinely feature a club or bar scene complete with a catchy, raucous dance number that make the days of Helen’s drunk “Piya Tu Ab To Aaja” from Caravan seem laughably tame. Recently, music producer turned singer Honey Singh helped usher in an era of Bollywood music that goes beyond praising the simple pleasures of intoxication. His hit “Chaar Botal Vodka” from Ragini MMS 2 celebrates binge-drinking, a dangerous theme recurrent in his music and his personal life. After an 18-month hiatus from the music industry, Singh disclosed his struggle with alcohol addiction and bipolar disorder.

Last September, Shashi Kapoor’s own great-nephew and modern-day heartthrob Ranbir Kapoor discussed having an alcohol addiction with Vogue India in the aftermath of his breakup with actor Katrina Kaif. “I have seen it in my family, I have seen it go the wrong way,” he said. “So I'm aware I have a drinking problem.”

This profound moment of maturity and self-realization is buried deep within the article. Vogue quickly glossed over the rare opportunity for impactful discourse, but not before assuring the reader: “For the record, the beverage of choice is a cold draught beer.”

A cold draught beer?

The most important follow-up to that revelation was unequivocally not which drink Kapoor likes to binge on. This fun fact feels strangely like an affirmation, as if instructing the reader on what next to order at the bar in order to become a cool alcoholic a là Ranbir Kapoor.

Again, this is not wholly surprising from a country which was able to quickly forgive, forget, and worship an actor like Salman Khan who was found guilty for killing a man in 2002 while drunk driving (he was later acquitted of charges).

After all, someone’s drinking problem is not a real issue (c’mon, it’s just for fun), and even if it is, it doesn’t affect other people, right?

Wrong.

Alcohol abuse is a major public health concern in India. Approximately 1/3 of domestic violence incidents occur while intoxicated, and a whopping 60% of all emergency room visits involve alcohol.

Consumption of alcohol is highly politicised, and a hot election issue in many states. In Tamil Nadu last year, the now-deceased former chief minister J. Jayalalitha began to shut down hundreds of liquor stores in the public sector in a move that many believed would pave the way to complete prohibition. A ban on alcohol in Kerala was reversed earlier this year when the Left Democratic Front defeated the previously prohibitionist government. Several other states have experimented similarly. Drinking is currently banned in Gujarat, Nagaland, and most recently Bihar. The state of Gujarat, in fact, has gone so far as to impose a death penalty for moonshine.

Yet despite multiple attempts by state governments to curb it, alcohol abuse is rising rapidly. In the last 20 years, consumption in India has increased over 55%, one of the fastest rates in the world. And a majority of Indian drinkers meet criteria for “hazardous drinking”.

It would be unfair to place the entire blame for India’s drinking problem at Bollywood’s door. Yet there appears to be an undeniable complicity.

A study released in 2012 demonstrated that Indian adolescents aged 12-16 who were exposed to alcohol consumption in Bollywood films were almost three times more likely to drink than those who were not.

Is it actually surprising then that the average age of drinking initiation has dropped from 19 years old to 13 years old in the last 20 years?

When art mimics life and life mimics art so fluidly, how do we know where to start dismantling the romance of alcoholism?

The complete banning of alcohol consumption in films would be ludicrous, and would fan the dangerous flames of artistic censorship with which India is already struggling.

A better place to start would be a more holistic depiction of alcohol abuse in Bollywood films: Keep the lustre of getting tipsy with friends at parties and the hilarity of its use as a social lubricant, but also show the families who fracture from it, and the medical emergencies that alcohol can provoke.

Audiences deserve a balanced, realistic perspective somewhere in between the melodramatic trainwreck of Amitabh Bachchan in Sharaabi and the rosy naivety of Kangana Ranaut in Queen.

If only alcohol were like tobacco. Unlike drinking, smoking is categorically harmful to health and increases mortality. And cancer is a scary word we can all get behind, a serious and common outcome of cigarette smoking. Because of this, the government controversially passed a smoking ban in Bollywood films that was effective (more or less) from 2005 to 2009.

Yes, the move failed spectacularly, but the message was clear: Smoking kills, and we need to do whatever we can to try to stop it.

Alcohol, however, is far more nuanced. In moderation, alcohol is perfectly acceptable, socially and physiologically (well, usually). In fact, research has demonstrated the health benefits of moderate amounts of red wine. But defining the limits to moderation is where things become murky, and recognizing the signs of addiction plays a key role.

To make matters worse, the transition from being social drinker to having a drinking problem carries all the baggage and stigma of a mental health issue that tends to be ignored, downplayed, or villainised.

So perhaps that is why when a legend like Shashi Kapoor dies from the consequences of alcohol abuse, we like to shrug it off.

If we continue to polarise alcohol addiction toward flippancy or toward shame, the numbers of Indians dying from it will continue to rise.

Sadly, like many banes of modern medicine, cirrhosis is preventable but not curable. An easy vehicle of escapism, alcohol abuse has emerged as a critical public health concern in India that we are falling precariously short of addressing. In one of Shashi Kapoor’s beloved Bollywood hits, Sharmilee, he plays an army officer whose romantic misadventure drives him to alcoholism. He sings tearfully:

“Ab toh karo kuchh aisa yaaro, hosh naa hum ko aaye.”

[“Now do something, friends, so that I don’t return to my senses.”]

How tragic that his wish came true.


19 Times Deepika Padukone Proved To The World That She Is Worthy Of Being Queen

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All hail Queenika.

When she supported her peers, even when they didn't believe in themselves.

When she supported her peers, even when they didn't believe in themselves.

Twitter: @deepikapadukone

When she didn't have much of a shit to give about her ex...

When she didn't have much of a shit to give about her ex...

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Or about validating rumours.

Or about validating rumours.

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When she offered these words of kindness to her fans.

When she offered these words of kindness to her fans.

Twitter: @deepikapadukone

When, even as a young woman, she knew that men needed to be better.

When, even as a young woman, she knew that men needed to be better.

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When she ruled over her kingdom with humour.

When she ruled over her kingdom with humour.

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When she offered us a range of expressions to fall in love with.

When she offered us a range of expressions to fall in love with.

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When she teased Karan Johar for being unnecessarily shady.

When she teased Karan Johar for being unnecessarily shady.

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When she stood up for her work and what she believed in, despite violent forces.

When she stood up for her work and what she believed in, despite violent forces.

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When she understood her needs well.

When she understood her needs well.

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Twitter: @deepikapadukone

When she got real about depression and successfully opened up the conversation about mental health in India.

When she got real about depression and successfully opened up the conversation about mental health in India.

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When she used her star power to further the conversation with her organisation Live Love Laugh.

When she used her star power to further the conversation with her organisation Live Love Laugh.

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When she proved she is a strong woman you wouldn't want to challenge to a fight.

Instagram: @deepikapadukone

When she was genuinely enthusiastic about cutting her boyfriend's moustache off.

When she was genuinely enthusiastic about cutting her boyfriend's moustache off.

Twitter: @RanveerOfficial

When she imitated Farah Khan's on-set behaviour.

When she imitated Farah Khan's on-set behaviour.

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When she made pyjamas look like a goddamn style statement.

When she made pyjamas look like a goddamn style statement.

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When she got goofy with her costar.

Instagram: @deepikapadukone

And when she gave back love to her fans, even the littlest ones.

And when she gave back love to her fans, even the littlest ones.

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It’s been 10 years since we’ve had a classic album, fam. Weep with me.

"Pehli Nazar Mein" from Race

"Pehli Nazar Mein" from Race

When you heard this: While texting 143 your crush on an SMS.

Tips

The ENTIRE Jaane Tu... Ya Jaane Na album

The ENTIRE Jaane Tu... Ya Jaane Na album

When you heard this: Literally all the damn time. Your mom was sick of your shit.

Aamir Khan Productions

"Khuda Jaane" from Bachna Ae Haseeno

"Khuda Jaane" from Bachna Ae Haseeno

When you heard this: When you watched the love of your life pass you right by, this was the song of your heart.

YRF

"Desi Girl" from Dostana

"Desi Girl" from Dostana

When you heard this: Every time you had a little more than two thumkas in you.

Dharma Productions

"Ae Paapi" from Kismat Konnection

"Ae Paapi" from Kismat Konnection

When you heard this: Every time some dude at the party wanted to show his moves off.

Tips

"Pichhle Saat Dinon Mein" from Rock On!!

"Pichhle Saat Dinon Mein" from Rock On!!

When you heard this: Every time you wanted to just be a little rebel and shut the world out with your headphones.

Excel Entertainment

"Chhaliya" from Tashan

"Chhaliya" from Tashan

When you heard this: Staring at the TV with your mouth open, hating your body but loving the jam.

YRF

"Zara Zara Touch Me" from Race

"Zara Zara Touch Me" from Race

When you heard this song: In the secret confines of your bedroom, while practising Katrina's bodyroll.

Tips

"Tu Hi Toh Meri Dost Hai" from Yuvvraaj

"Tu Hi Toh Meri Dost Hai" from Yuvvraaj

When you heard this: Feeling squishy about your friends, and maybe someone you've been in love with forever.

Mukta Arts

"Zara Si" from Jannat

"Zara Si" from Jannat

When you heard this: When you lay in bed fantasising about your crush serenading you.

Vishesh Films

"Socha Hai" from Rock On!!

"Socha Hai" from Rock On!!

When you heard this: When you got high, and had a lot of questions.

Excel Entertainment

"Jaane Kyun" from Dostana

"Jaane Kyun" from Dostana

When you heard this: Every time your friends and you got a little senti about your relationship.

Dharma Productions

"Mar Jaawa" from Fashion

"Mar Jaawa" from Fashion

When you heard this: When crying into your pillow post heartbreak.

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"Jashn-E-Bahara" from Jodhaa Akbar

"Jashn-E-Bahara" from Jodhaa Akbar

When you heard this song: Probably when you were in class staring at your crush, playing it hot-and-cold in your head.

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"Tujh Mein Rab Dikhta Hai" from Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi

"Tujh Mein Rab Dikhta Hai" from Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi

When you heard this: Every time you needed a good cry because of your love life.

YRF

"Talli" from Ugly Aur Pagli

"Talli" from Ugly Aur Pagli

When you heard this: When you pretended your bedroom was the club and you were drunk on your own energy.

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"Lazy Lamhe" from Thoda Pyaar, Thoda Magic

"Lazy Lamhe" from Thoda Pyaar, Thoda Magic

When you heard this: When you asked yourself, "Where the hell is Amisha Patel these days?"

YRF

"Maari Teetri" from De Taali

"Maari Teetri" from De Taali

When you heard this: Jamming in the middle of the day for no damn reason, wondering how the hell the song got stuck in your head.

Sahara Motion Pictures

"Guzaarish" from Ghajini

"Guzaarish" from Ghajini

When you heard this: While helping your friend plan their love life better than you did.

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"Dil Haara" from Tashan

"Dil Haara" from Tashan

When you heard this: While crying about your non-existent love life as you watched Saifeena set the screen on fire for the first time ever.

YRF

"Break Free (Remix)" from Krazzy 4

"Break Free (Remix)" from Krazzy 4

When you heard this: While awkwardly practising moves for the school year-end party.

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"Jee Karda" from Singh Is Kinng

"Jee Karda" from Singh Is Kinng

When you heard this: Any time you wanted to fucking dance and all the time on the radio.

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"Dance Pe Chance" from Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi

"Dance Pe Chance" from Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi

When you heard this: In your bedroom, trying to figure what the steps would look like when you do left leg aage-aage and right leg peeche-peeche.

YRF

"De Taali" from De Taali

"De Taali" from De Taali

When you heard this: Really loud, at the end of the day.

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"Kuch Khaas" from Fashion

"Kuch Khaas" from Fashion

When you heard this: When you finally recovered from that broken heart, only to feel yourself fall in love for the third time that week.

UTV Motion Pictures

"Teri Ore" from Singh Is Kinng

"Teri Ore" from Singh Is Kinng

When you heard this: Every time you lost your heart to another fuckboi who didn't deserve it.

Reliance Entertainment

"Bachna Ae Haseeno" from Bachna Ae Haseeno

"Bachna Ae Haseeno" from Bachna Ae Haseeno

When you heard this: When you realised your parents' feelings about remixes didn't matter and all you cared about was Ranbir's bare chest.

YRF

"Hey Ya" from Kidnap

"Hey Ya" from Kidnap

When you heard this: When you wanted to call to any girl named Sonia.

Shree Ashtavinayak Cine Vision Ltd

"Tandoori Nights" from Karzzzz

"Tandoori Nights" from Karzzzz

When you heard this: In secret, so that no one knew you were the idiot still listening to Himesh.

T-Series

"Milo Na Milo" from Love Story 2050

"Milo Na Milo" from Love Story 2050

When you heard this: With your eyes closed, because it was a great jam barring the bright red wig PC donned.

Baweja Movies

"Oye Lucky Lucky Oye" from Oye Lucky! Lucky Oye!

"Oye Lucky Lucky Oye" from Oye Lucky! Lucky Oye!

When you heard this: Every time you felt a little Delhi on the inside.

UTV Motion Pictures

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The Vigil Idiot Reviews "Roy", A Film That's Waaay Less Smart Than It Thinks It Is

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Here's the plot of Vikramjit Singh's romantic thriller "Roy," stripped down to its bare essentials so you can see how craptastic it truly is.


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